Fun Times with Anal Sex Toys: Discover New Erogenous Zones

Anal play can help you find erogenous zones you never knew existed. While women have fewer pleasure nerve endings in this area, men are more sensitive because of their prostate gland. So, it's often seen as a guy thing, but that's not entirely true. Women just need to explore a bit more to find spots that stimulate the G-Spot and clitoral areas through anal play. Once you're comfortable and know what you're doing, anal play can supercharge orgasms with new and powerful sensations. Anal play feels amazing once you get the hang of it!

Be Sure to Prep: Anal play can be a bit messy if you're unprepared, but it's usually not that bad. Using condoms with a partner or on your toys keeps things clean and fresh. A quick rinse with an enema bulb and warm water also helps. Just remember, don't use an enema more than once a week, as it can remove electrolytes and cause irritation. An easy solution is to use an unscented baby wipe to clean the outer ring of the anus. The best prep is to empty your bowels about an hour before play, followed by a quick shower or bath. Here are some helpful tips on prepping for anal play.

Go Slow: Beginners sometimes go too hard too fast and underestimate their canal's sensitivity. It's a delicate space! Start with smaller toys and work your way up to avoid aggravating the sensitive lining in your passageway. Use plenty of lube and take it slow to ensure a smooth and comfortable experience. Women generally have more sensitive passageways than men, so be extra gentle and go really slow until she says to pick up the pace. Here is a friendly guide on doing anal the right way. And always clean your toys before and after play—no exceptions!

Anal Toys: Materials & Styles

Butt Plugs, Prostate Massagers, and Anal Beads

Anal toys come in various shapes, lengths, and widths to suit different experience levels.

Butt Plugs: Small plugs usually have less than 5 inches of insertable length. Medium plugs range from 5 to 7 inches, while large plugs are for very experienced players. Choose a length that feels full without causing discomfort.
Prostate Massagers: These are like butt plugs but with a curve at the top to massage the prostate. Some also stimulate the perineum (the area between your genitals and anus) for dual stimulation. Dual prostate massagers are the men’s equivalent of a rabbit vibrator!
Anal Beads: A set of insertable spheres attached by a string and a pull plug.

Materials: Anal toys are typically made of body-safe silicone, but luxury models can be found in smooth hardened glass, stainless steel, or chrome-plated aluminum. Glass and stainless toys offer the option of temperature play. Warm up your toy by soaking it in warm water or cool it by placing it in the refrigerator.

Lube Tips: Always use water-based lube with silicone toys, as silicone lube or oils can damage your toy.

Finding the Right Size: Choosing the Perfect Butt Plug or Prostate Massager

When selecting anal toys like butt plugs and prostate massagers, finding the right size is crucial for comfort and pleasure.

Key Measurements

Overall Length: This is the length of the toy from its tip to the very bottom of its base. For most people with some experience, the ideal overall length for anal play ranges from 3 to 5 inches. Beginners should start with smaller toys and gradually work their way up. Larger toys require more skill and experience, so avoid overestimating your capabilities.
Insertable Length: This is the length of the toy that can be inserted into your orifice. For flared anal dildos, it’s the overall length minus the length of the flared base. The insertable length indicates how deep the toy can go. For reference, the average erect penis is about 5 inches long.
Width: This is the measurement from one edge of the toy to the opposite edge, also known as the diameter. It tells you how wide the toy is. For reference, the average erect penis is about 1.5 inches wide.
Girth: This is the circumference of the toy, measured around its outer edge. While girth measures the size of the toy in a circle, most people find width (diameter) to be a more intuitive measurement of wideness.

Tips for Beginners: Start Small: Begin with smaller toys and work your way up as you become more comfortable.
Use Plenty of Lube: This ensures a smooth and comfortable experience.
Listen to Your Body: If you feel discomfort or pain, stop and try a smaller size or a different shape.

By understanding these measurements, you can find the perfect toy to enhance your anal play experience safely and enjoyably.

Anal Play is Just for Gay Guys and Porn Stars, Right?!

Debunking the Misconception

Many straight guys might think anal play is only for gay men or porn stars, but that’s not true. The anal opening and anal canal are packed with nerve endings, making them highly sensitive to stimulation. This sensitivity is a biological function, not an expression of sexual orientation. If it feels good, it’s because your body is designed that way.

Pleasure for Everyone

Men: Massaging the prostate gland provides powerful stimuli that can take orgasms to an entirely different level.
People with Vulvas: Anal play can also be enjoyable because it can stimulate the vaginal canal through internal clitoral structures.

Understanding the Difference

Sexual Orientation: Who someone wants to feel good with.
Biological Function: How they go about feeling good.